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Should I Expand My Family?

Adding a new pet to the mix is a difficult decision, but there are options to try it out without committing.

Full disclosure: I have the best cat in the world.

His name is Gizmo, he’s two years old and is technically a fluffy grey Tabby but I’m convinced he’s part Maine Coon. I adopted him from the Tacoma Humane Society when he was just a tiny kitten and he’s been my best friend ever since.

He’s snuggly, chatty and even plays fetch with me. He knows his own name and recognizes the sounds of my car when I come home – my favorite thing in the world is seeing his cute little face pop out from behind my living room curtains after I hit the security beep on my car.

He’s an only ‘child’ and it’s just him and me at home. When I went away for vacation recently, I was very worried about how he would do. I was gone two weeks and left him with my friend Carly, who lives in an apartment with her cat, Benny and her guinea pig, Penelope.

Benny is a giant Persian and hissed at Gizmo immediately when we introduced them. I had to tearfully say goodbye to my sweet Gizzy on my hands and knees, as he cowered in fear under Carly's bed.

While I was gone, I emailed her for status updates on how my BFF was doing. The first couple days were tough, she said, and he rarely came out from under her bed.

But then, something changed.

Gizmo and Benny started laying on the ground together – sprawled out the way only cats can, just inches away from each other but not touching. Then, they started sharing a food bowl. Soon, they were best friends.

It’s common knowledge that cats, especially males, are extremely territorial and usually don’t welcome newcomers easily. But Gizmo and Benny developed a sweet bond and when I brought Gizmo home, I could tell he missed his buddy.

The experience got me thinking about getting a second cat. Especially when I noticed more how much Gizmo sleeps during the day and what little interaction he gets, being an indoor cat. What if he is lonely and needs a friend?

Cats are so unpredictable; it’s hard to tell if their personalities will mesh when they meet, or if they'll hate each other for life. Much like humans. It's also possible that their personalities will change when another pet is added to the family.

I’m still on the fence about adopting another cat, but there is a way to try it out without committing.

in Puyallup offers a pet foster-family program where you can take care of a shelter pet at home until they are adopted out (or you decide to keep them). The most common foster pet you’ll get is a baby kitten that is too young and fragile to be adopted out and benefits greatly from a home environment, rather than the shelter. Sometimes you get to foster the mother as she recovers after giving birth to a litter. (Dogs are available for fostering, too!)

Fostering a pet is a good way to find out if your cat would like a pal or not and, if it doesn’t work out, it’s not a permanent situation that would be hard on the other kitty.

At Metro, they like pet foster families to be shelter volunteers first, but that’s not required. If you’re interested in learning more about being a foster parent to an animal, stop by the shelter and learn more from the volunteers, or call 253-299-PETS (ext. 3).

Do you think bringing a second cat into the mix is a good idea when you have an already-perfect cat? Do you think cats benefit from more interaction with their species, or is a solitary kitty a content one?

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Tami Cutler May 20, 2013 at 11:00 am
You went out in public in your pajamas? Please don't do that again--nobody wants to see that. WhoRead More cares about some stupid deer. You've never seen a deer before? You need to get out more often, just please put some clothes on.
Winona Jacobsen May 19, 2013 at 10:43 am
Quinn’s comments regarding Laurie Carter’s article are totally out of touch, not onlyRead More with the subject of the article, the timing of the article, the content of the column, but everything else she references in her diatribe. When she refers to “this week’s article”, the most current was Carter’s article on the US Postal Service’s efforts to alleviate community hunger with their food drive. Laurie went on to let us all know that if we missed the deadline, then we still had options available for donating to our local food bank. The same article also announced the open house that the Greater Bonney Lake Historical Society will hold on Monday, May 20th from 6:00pm-8:00pm at Bonney Lake’s old city hall at 19306 Bonney Lake Boulevard. That certainly doesn’t sound like any kind of park commentary to me. So why the rant, Quinn? Maybe she was referring to the previous week’s article that gave a brief history of the infamous “Gnome Project”. Good Grief! Does that sound like some kind of subversive plot hatched by one of the most dedicated citizens I know and a very talented and active city councilman? Ease up, chill out, and try smiling once in a while, Quinn. Life should be relished, and when you can find something that brings joy to others and can light up a child’s face yet still give a reason to go out and explore our city’s natural park areas, we benefit with exercise, fresh air, a touch of whimsy, adventure, and the thrill of discovery. Hooray for the Gnomes of Bonney Lake, most of our city council members, and the mayor for seeing the humor and recognizing the widespread appeal this has. It has generated interest in not only our town, but even internationally. It has brought in visitors from other communities. That, my friends, is the beginning of another form of economic development that parks can add to our city. We can see that at one of the major retailers that have been marketing gnomes here in Bonney Lake. You dare to presume all of what Laurie Carter cares about, yet you obviously have no clue. She has been one of the most hard working, dedicated, inspiring citizens I have ever had the pleasure of meeting and been honored to work with. It was a very sad day for the people of Bonney Lake when she decided to step down from her city council position. She made every effort to know what her constituents thought and valued their opinions. She never hesitated to make phone calls or knock on doors to find out what the people wanted. Her donations of time and dollars for the disadvantaged and the children of our city are legendary. Her concern for Bonney Lake has many dimensions, and I am thankful that she continues to be active in our community even if she no longer sits on the dais of the city council.
Sherry Creson May 16, 2013 at 11:03 pm
This is not the first time or the first person Quinn tried to hurt. I think she has a bitter andRead More evil heart. Instead of building and supporting the city, she prefers to tear down anything good and honorable. I'm so glad the voters saw fit to pass her by when she ran for election! With her attitude, it would have been detrimental to having a nice city to live in! Stuff a sock in it, Quinn!
Tami Cutler May 16, 2013 at 05:15 pm
Quinn you poor bitter old hag. I feel sorry for you.
Monica Fitts May 18, 2013 at 03:42 am
I will never forget you David. We were connected through a tragic event that at times just feelsRead More like yesterday, and then you were taken from this earth by another tragic event. The 28 years inbetween went to fast. You were humble and down to earth. I feel as though you were surprised at how many people you touched in your 41 years. It was evidence at your service that you are loved by many, and you will never be forgotten.
DavidandKelli Flores May 15, 2013 at 11:32 am
I love and miss you my little brother Davy.:(